In relationships, do you think jealousy and control go hand in hand?

Like, if your partner is jealous, they will try to be controlling, and if they're controlling, it's probably because they're jealous?In relationships, do you think jealousy and control go hand in hand?
Yes, and both of those things go hand %26amp; hand with insecurity.In relationships, do you think jealousy and control go hand in hand?
Yes and No...some people are controlling by nature!! They were born to control!! Where they pick it up...I don't know, but I was always wondering what makes a person want to control others, when it is so hard to control ones self?? I'm really curious to why?? Jealousy is a wasted energy, and quite poisenous!! I use to be with a man for 10years who I was always faithful to, but through out the whole relationship..I soposedly was always having an affair, cheating, flirting with somebody new all the time!! Ten years was far too long to put up with his crazy mind! I should have left him right away!! If you are putting up with someone who is controling and jealous, I really, really feel for you!!! They never change, only get worse!! If I were you, I would get some steal toed boots, and give him the BOOT!!! Good luck to you!! You'll need it!!!
Not always, i, e:


If your bf/gf is jealous, they could probably become controlling, but if they're controlling doesn't automatically mean that it springs up from jealousy, as there are many other factors that such as feeling inferior, and other personality issues that could provoke that
Men who are jealouse are very controlling. here are some things to show you what i mean





Your going out with your friends- Your man gets very mad and starts asking silly questions


Your wearing a top that shows a little something? You cant wear that out.


taking it overboard with jelousy.


Your not aloud to have friends over


your not aloud to speak on the phone with anyone other than your family


if you stare at someone he thinks who is that








i know because i use to have a boyfriend like that


i wasnt aloud to wear makeup


perfume


or any of my nice tops. I dumped him of course he wasnt worth it
Yes I think thats true they try and control their jealousy by being controlling cause they think it gives them control over their own jealousy, ok i'm rambling....
i know someone that is extremely controlling


(cuz his parents were) but not jealous. in


relationships i see that controlling people


tend to hook up with people pleaser type


people.





your theory prob happens a lot but not ALL


the time
Definitely. Controlling turns to manipulation and emotional abuse turns to physical abuse.
I haven't given them any in depth analysis other than to steer clear of those behaviors, but I suspect they are among the reigning top two relationship saboteurs going.
Not always, sometimes it isnt about control but about respect. Sometimes a person just wants the same sort of treatment.
As long as there is any kind of jealousy the relationship will never work.
Not always. For some couples jealousy is a firestarter in order to improve their sex life momentarily.
yes i think that is true. but you also have to have control to stop the jealousy from coming out.
in a relationship, control is given to the one who loves the least~
Yes and it's based on insecurity not love.
Absolutely.
shutup you dumb immigrant
no doubt about it. reminds me of that movie ';sleeping with the enemy';





now that was a bit much...
yes but not always there are always exceptions
darn skippy
May be in some cases .
Yes, of course.
yes .. cuz one leads to the other
This question makes my head hurt.

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